I was flying home from a business trip.I put on movie 'Wonder' to pass the time.
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There was a scene where the boy wanted to invite his first friend over.His mother looked so happy. And so nervous.
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Nothing. I’m okay.But I wasn’t really in that seat anymore.
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I was back in fifth grade.With JH.
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The right side of his face had been burned.He wore his hair long on that side.
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I’d just moved to the city.I didn’t have many friends yet.
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JH was kind to me.Before long, we were best friends.
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Then our little group got bigger.
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The first time we went to his house, his mom was waiting at the door.
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Come in, come in.Make yourselves comfortable.She seemed almost more excited than we were.
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Then snacks.Then something else, just when we thought she was done.
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We loved going there.His mom made us feel welcome. And there were books and toys everywhere.
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JH was burned by hot water when he was very little.She told us on that first visit. We hadn’t asked.
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We weren’t wondering about his face.We were wondering what to play next.
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At school, the main teams didn’t pick us.So we made our own.
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They hadn’t counted on JH.
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He was an incredible athlete.Eventually, our team beat theirs.
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For a bunch of boys nobody picked, that felt pretty good.
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We drew cartoons together, too.He was good at that as well.
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Now, whenever I make a cartoon, I think of him.
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He had another talent almost nobody knew about.Arm wrestling.
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You have to try him.He never showed off. So I did a little showing off for him.
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One match became another.More boys started coming over to talk to him.
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His face stopped being the first thing they noticed.They were getting to know JH.
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JH! You be Baron Ashura!Then you’d better run.Sometimes we asked him to play the villain from Mazinger Z.
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He always joined in.That’s how I remember it. I hope it was fun for him, too.
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Back then, I thought his mom was just really kind.Sure she was.
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Then we grew up.Work. Family. One busy year after another.
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Years later, social networks made old friends easier to find.I reconnected with so many of the boys from our team.
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But not JH.I kept looking. I still couldn’t find him.
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I told myself he probably wouldn’t use something called Facebook.But really, I had no idea where he was—or why I couldn’t find him.
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Are you sure you’re all right?Nothing. Really. Thank you.
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Watching that mother, I finally wondered what ours had meant.Maybe every plate was her way of saying: Please have a good time here. Please come again.
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I’m a dad now.I think I would have done the same thing.
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JH, I miss you.I wish I’d told you how much those days meant to me.
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So I made this cartoon.If you ever see it, I think you’ll know it’s us.I hope you’ll find me through this site.
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